5,000 Miles to Freedom

by Telling Dad on February 14, 2012

Well, we did it again.

We brought another abandoned pooch into our home. Only this time, we went international.

Two weeks ago, our newly adopted 2-year old Golden Retriever was 5,000+ miles away in Turkey. Tonight, she’s on our living room couch.

A dear friend of ours made a recent trip to Istanbul and ended up returning with two beautiful dogs that had been abandoned in the streets. Even though she didn’t yet have homes lined up for them, she knew she’d work tirelessly until she found some. Which of course meant calling Heather.

Before Heather even mentioned the dogs, I saw THIS photo update on Laura’s Facebook wall, and I knew it was only a matter of time before I’d have to make room.

It's not even fair.

Whereas most people come home from foreign countries with trinkets and souvenirs, Laura decided to return with two foster dogs. I can’t say it surprises me. She’s a lovely person, inside and out, and those with big hearts often find it difficult to say no. Especially when it’s within their means and capabilities to do something.

So there she sat in the Atatürk International Airport with two pups, turning to social media to try and find homes for them. One was a male black lab and the other was a female golden retriever. Both were purebred dogs, healthy, microchipped, fixed, fully vaccinated, and given a clean bill of health. They even had their own little doggy passports written in Turkish hieroglyphics.

Can you guess which two mammals in this photo are bilingual?
Hint: They're also the fuzziest.

If you’re wondering why we chose to adopt a dog from halfway around the world rather than our local pound if we were looking for another dog, the answer is simple. We weren’t looking for another dog.

But after Laura shared their stories, we made the decision to adopt one of them. The other found a home the very same day.

While abandoned dogs are a problem here in the States, it’s many times worse in Turkey. Especially in the region Laura was visiting where purebred dogs line the streets, lay in front of shops, and walk the alleys in search of food. They’re as common as pigeons but almost treated worse.

You wouldn’t believe how common pet abandonment is over there. Unlike here in the United States where the majority of people treat their dogs as members of the family, dogs are more treated like livestock in that region.

Making it worse are the habits of tourists who visit the posh coastal resorts. Because purebred puppies are regarded as a status symbol, they’ll purchase a dog from one of the plentiful “pet boutiques” in the area (which are as common over there as Starbucks are over here) and gallivant around town with their fancy new puppy.

When their vacation ends, whether it be a few weeks or a few months later, they leave. Taking along their luggage and memories, but leaving the dog behind. In almost all cases, these young dogs are simply walked outside the condo and released into the streets.

As abhorrent as that sounds to you and me, it’s just a different culture over there, and the practice isn’t deemed cruel by most. But fortunately, it is deemed cruel by some, and they’re doing all they can to try and rescue these animals.

The organization she went through, Let’s Adopt Global, works hard to shelter, feed, and foster abandoned or abused animals while also searching for homes in other countries. They search globally but primarily seek families in the US and Germany where long-term quarantine laws aren’t in place.

The golden retriever that we ended up adopting was found emaciated and weak, tied to a post in someone’s backyard. Her ribs were showing and she would flinch or cower if a human approached. She was subsequently rescued and fostered by Laura’s friend until she regained both weight and trust.

She’s a beautiful dog. Very smart, fully housebroken, an absolute love with the children, and playful with our other pets. While perhaps a little TOO playful for our cat Larry’s tastes, she was instantly and immediately “one of us.”

Dory isn’t all that interested in her existence but this dog certainly has an interest in Dory. She tries to play with her but Dory is just too old, too deaf, and too blind to care. Jackson has no interest in playing with the new arrival either but he’s simply too old and too broken to do much more than growl at her. And the cats? Well, they don’t want to play with her at all. As evident by their apparent disdain for being trapped beneath her paws.

Tonight is only her second night but she’s certainly had no problem making herself right at home. She’s a cuddler, a 60-pound lap dog, and you can almost sense her relief and gratitude. She greets us with a happy grin and a wagging tail even if we’re only out of the room for a moment, and she has absolutely taken a great liking to her newest playmate, our 3-year old daughter Kamryn.

It they aren’t playing tug-of-war with a rope, sock, or stuffed animal, they’re outside playing in the snow. Doggy angels, snowball fetch, and just all-out sprints are all on tap.

It’s only been 48 hours and we already love her. Now we just need to name her.

We’re thinking of using a Turkish name but they seem to require pronunciations that sound like we’ve swallowed carpet tacks. Heather found “Zerrin,” which means “Golden” but I just can’t help but have visions of Jill Zarin from Real Housewives of NYC every time I hear it. Nothing against her, but it’s not the vision I want summoned into my brain on a daily basis.

We’re not worried. We’ll figure it out. And besides, she’s patient. She really hasn’t pressed us for a name. Right now she’s perfectly content with us whistling, clapping, and shouting out names like “girl,” “puppy,” and “hey you.”

She’s a wonderful dog and I just can’t comprehend why people wouldn’t consider it cold and callous to purchase a new puppy, let it bond with the family, and then toss it out along with the post-vacation garbage. This kind of traumatic experience just has to break a dog’s spirit.

Fortunately, there are people out there who do all they can to bring it back. And when you consider that less than three months ago this dog was scared, ignored, and malnourished, it’s truly heartwarming to witness the return of a dog’s spirit. Watching as the zest for life they’re born with begins to re-emerge.

And I’ll tell you this straight from the heart. Being the lucky recipients of the unconditional love they’re eager to share? It’s absolutely priceless.

Much like this:

We have the whole dog rescue thing down pat.
Cleaning chocolate off our daughter's face before snapping photos? Not so much.

I think what we love most is that there are plenty more memories to come. Both for us and for her. And as strange as it may sound, I think we’re just as grateful as she is.

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Mahlika
February 14, 2012 at 9:03 pm

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Sandy February 14, 2012 at 1:06 am

isn’t the name as plain as the nose on her fuzzy muzzle…and it fits perfect with your personality…TURKEY!

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Alison February 14, 2012 at 6:16 am

You have a wonderful family. Lucky pup!

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Sarah February 14, 2012 at 6:27 am

She is adorable! What you’ve done is a wonderful thing. The loyalty and affection these dogs have when they’ve been rescued and are given a loving home is unbelievable.

I grew up in Spain and the canine situation isn’t much better. My gran who is now in her seventies is still running a rescue centre in a small village called Tordera. She’s rescued dogs, cats, chickens, peacocks and even a horse and tiger from a travelling circus that were badly abused and in very poor health. The Spanish and Catalans really don’t understand the saying of ‘a dog is for life, not just Christmas’ and when the new year comes, pets are kicked out and kittens and puppies are often placed into bags and thrown into the river. My gran does her best to save every animal she encounters who is in need of some TLC and a home, her vet bills are astonomical and her home is kinda like a zoo but she wouldn’t change what she has in a million years.

You could go with something like Ev which means home or Baris which means peace. What city was she recued in? Turkey has some lovely city names, albeit some are hard to pronounce.

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WilyGuy February 14, 2012 at 6:27 am

I would wag 5000 miles and I would wag 5000 more just to be the dog… oh, make it stop!

It is a good thing that dogs speak the international language of love, else you’d be having a hard time telling her where the toilet is…

Beautiful dog! Sadly, it is probably cheaper to go adopt a purebred Golden in Turkey than it is to buy one from a breeder here. Sounds like a great charity that I will have to investigate (to give some money to, because Lord knows if Mrs. Mynd finds out, we’ll be inundated).

WG
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Anna February 14, 2012 at 6:38 am

Absolutely amazing story! She is beautiful just like your entire family!

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Alison February 14, 2012 at 6:42 am

So sweet Greg! So glad you and Heather welcomed another dog into your lives. She’s gorgeous!

I wouldn’t want to think about Jill Zarin every day either. May go insane.

Good luck with finding a name!

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Michelle February 14, 2012 at 6:45 am

Oh lucky you! Such an adorable girl! Congratulations on your new family memeber. Looks like she is already in love with you all. What about shortening Zerrin to Zerry? It’s always easier for the dogs to understand names that end with a vowel sound. Can’t wait to hear more about your new addition.

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Karen February 14, 2012 at 6:59 am

That last photo is absolutely priceless. Congratulations on the new member of your family.

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Kate February 14, 2012 at 7:29 am

I love how big your hearts are! I realize you’re not asking for name suggestions, but I can’t help myself. When I was working for a local university years ago, we had a graduate student from Turkey working for us. She was doing a Master’s while her husband went to medical school, and she is one of the most fantastic human beings I’ve ever met. Her name? Didem (pronounced Dee-dem). Perhaps that for your lovely new addition?

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Kate February 14, 2012 at 7:34 am

Oh, and FYI, Didem means “my sweetheart” … but according to some Yahoo forums, it also may mean “Someone who travels”…

Neslihan Kreher February 14, 2012 at 7:32 am

She is resqued in Bodrum izmir. It may give an idea for a name..Sooo happy for her..

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Viktor Larkhill February 14, 2012 at 7:47 am

Hi Greg…
Thanks a lot for opening your home to ” insert name here ” … good luck with finding a name, choose one that describes her personality, but whatever you do choose one that is pronounceable.. don’t do what Prince did by naming himself an unpronounceable symbol.
Jokes apart, the situation in Turkey is indeed appalling for a variety of reasons, some of them not exactly what you would be expecting and some of them not exactly bad here… in a nutshell:
1. Things are changing quickly, but the concept of dog ownership is not the same here are where you are. To the majority of the country dogs are not there to be owned or protected, they are there to be FED, and kept outside the homes, many times for religious reasons. This is why you will see many dogs living happily on the streets being fed by total strangers, strangers that won’t ever dream of rescuing that dog and taking him home.
Having said that, if you ask me what do I prefer, to have a dog on the streets being fed and accepted by the people or having him collected and dumped at a Kill Shelter to be destroyed I know what I would prefer.
In a sort of paradox, this baby is with you right now BECAUSE he was here first.. had she been in most cities in the USA she would have probably been killed before you found her.
2. Again, it’s changing slowly, but Turkish society rejects the idea of sterilization based on a vague mix of religious and moral beliefs… it’s a nearly impossible task to convince someone to neuter his dog and keep him home warm and part of the family when that person believes the dog MUST NEVER be neutered and MUST NEVER enter the home or no angel will ever enter it (amazing right?)
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3. As the concept of dogs as pet and not as workforce is relatively new dogs are a status symbol. Something you get to show everyone you have ARRIVED, that you are someone that fits within the stereotype they sell you on the ads (yes, there are lots of dogs in ads here). But once you have it, then you get rid of it.
The beautiful animal you have in your home right now thanks to the amazing Laura, was either bred by two animal lovers that loved their dogs very much and gave the puppies to a friend (that dumped her when he got tired of her) OR was purchased at a petshop in Istanbul at some ridiculous price. If I told you how expensive those dogs are here you would never believe it.
Istanbul shelters are absolutely full of Golden Retrievers, but they are even fuller of mix breeds, dogs born on the streets, offsprings of fertile unneutered dogs and “owned” dogs allowed to roam.
It’s a complex mess that we are trying to solve one dog at a time because we are crazy dreamers… :-)
Congratulations and thank you for opening your home to this baby..
Viktor
Founder
Let’s Adopt Global
https://www.facebook.com/LetsAdoptGlobal
Our Adoption Album: https://www.facebook.com/media/albums/?id=111324518892054

Note: Impressed, you got the distance right… 5389 miles..
Note2… Please feed her RAW . Look into the issue here, you’ll understand http://www.rawfed.com

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Telling Dad February 14, 2012 at 2:29 pm

Thank you for reaching out Viktor! We love her and she’ll be well cared for. We currently feed our dogs a brand called “Taste of the Wild” which is grain-free. It costs 2-3 times what conventional dog food costs but we think the benefits are worth it. As for feeding raw, I’ll look into that right now! Thank you again and thank you for all you do for these dogs!

Viktor Larkhill February 14, 2012 at 7:48 am

One last comment…
The Turkish Hieroglyphs are my handwriting.

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Telling Dad February 14, 2012 at 2:29 pm

Sweet! Perhaps that will boost value. :)

jen b February 14, 2012 at 8:01 am

When I see those pictures and the look on the dog’s face when she looks at Kamryn, I melt! Let Kamryn name her!

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Secil February 14, 2012 at 8:42 am

You could always name her Melek. It means butterfly in Turkish and she did fly over here ;)

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leah- diaries of a domestic goddess February 14, 2012 at 9:04 am

what a great post!

Too bad she’s not a male! You could have named her Marlin and have a whole Nemo theme!

Or you can just call her Ellen. :)

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Brandy February 14, 2012 at 9:11 am

I love love Golden Retrievers!! Adorable and awesome!

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Andrea February 14, 2012 at 9:20 am

What a beautiful story. She looks like an amazing dog and it saddens me to hear that animals are treated so poorly in other countries. I thought our country was bad enough!

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Sharon February 14, 2012 at 9:32 am

She is a beautiful dog and I am so glad your friend was able to bring her here and you guys were able to give her a home.

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Henrietta February 14, 2012 at 9:40 am

She is just gorgeous and looks like she’s already one of the family! Your daughter has a friend for life :) Hope you find a great name for her! I like the Ellen suggestion, she kind of looks like her — hair color and all ;)

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Katie February 14, 2012 at 9:51 am

oh my gosh, she is so beautiful! You guys truly are the best – I just love hearing happy endings for homeless animals!

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Franca February 14, 2012 at 10:09 am

I like the name Turkey as suggested

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Crystal @ FurKid Fosters February 14, 2012 at 10:11 am

Love it!! You’re an amazing family. A life saved is a life saved, no matter where it originated. As someone that works in dog rescue, this warmed my heart on a cold and dreary day.

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Chelle February 14, 2012 at 10:13 am

We adopted a golden puppy 18 months ago and never looked back. Jackson literally saved my husband’s sanity when his dad died last July. I can’t imagine life without our furry puppy and I was never a dog person. Golden rock!

I agree with the poster who said let Kamryn name her. She obviously already has a bond with this dog.

What an awesome thing you have done. This thing in other countries about just leaving the animals out as trash is heartbreaking and makes me want to kick something.
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Jen-Eighty MPH Mom February 14, 2012 at 10:32 am

She is absolutely beautiful! And so are you and Heather for bringing her into your home. I wish I had a backyard big enough to take in one of these dogs…it makes me so sad that they are treated like this.

Bless your hearts :)
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Lori February 14, 2012 at 11:02 am

I still like the name Gibblet. She is beautiful! Kiss Kamryn for me.

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Jennifer February 14, 2012 at 5:17 pm

Gibblet is HYSTERICAL!!! I was thinking Butterball or some other turkey brand name!

Shan @ Last Shreds Of Sanity February 14, 2012 at 11:10 am

Oh she’s beautiful! What about Morocco? I know it’s not the same country but it’s exotic. LOL And I would hear Jill Zarin’s hateful, nasally voice with the name Zerrin as well. Don’t do that to her.

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Jenn @therebelchick February 14, 2012 at 11:14 am

What a lucky dog and your family is so wonderful for taking her in! I hope you have many years of happiness together! :)

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Joanna February 14, 2012 at 11:26 am

Love this! And because I am a wise-ass by nature but a sentimental slob underneath, I say name her Hope. Not that you need more suggestions but I had to chime in with my two cents. Enjoy her!

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Nolie February 14, 2012 at 11:41 am

Amazing story and beautiful dog. You can see the love and appreciate in her eyes for you guys.
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Marianna February 14, 2012 at 11:52 am

Greg, you and your family are some of the most thoughtful and caring people out there. I wish the world had more of you. Your new pup is absolutely gorgeous and you can see in her face how thrilled she is with her new home.

I also like the name Turkey for her. :)

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Mia February 14, 2012 at 11:59 am

Beautiful dog, beautiful children, beautiful thing to do. So happy for everyone involved!!!

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Cat February 14, 2012 at 1:11 pm

i came wandering over from another blog, and very happy i did!! look at the love on that dog’s face, yes definately the right thing to do.

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Candace February 14, 2012 at 1:17 pm

She is beautiful! Someday when we get a dog that is the breed I want!

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Erin February 14, 2012 at 1:22 pm

The only Turkish name I know is Goksin – which is pronounced “Guk-shin”. It’s a girls name. (My BFF in college. LOL)

She is beautiful and you did a wonderful thing. It doesn’t matter where they come from when they need a home.

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Courtney February 14, 2012 at 1:54 pm

She’s absolutely beautiful!! Love the last photo! Haha :)

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msumissa February 14, 2012 at 2:24 pm

I vote for Connie, because, Istanbul was Constantinople, now it’s Istanbul, not Constantinople…
Ahhahahahahah I love They Might Be Giants…. and I couldn’t resist!

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marybeth @ www.babygoodbuys.com February 14, 2012 at 3:42 pm

Bless your heart–she looks so sweet. It’s clear that she was meant to be with your family!

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Becca February 14, 2012 at 5:03 pm

3 months ago we found a cute Shitzu along the highway. She was in pain,was not able to walk and famished. She was hit of unconcerned driver. Good thing my hubby found her. After 3 months, she’s now frisky and can play with us.
She’s lucky to have a family like you! Bless your hearth.

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Audra February 14, 2012 at 5:06 pm

If I was fuzzy and abandoned, I would totally want to be adopted by you guys! Luck dog!
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Emily February 14, 2012 at 5:13 pm

You guys are saints! She is a gorgeous animal… and it is evident from the pictures that she is in absolute love with your family. The way she looks at Kamryn is pure adoration. I teared up a little looking at them. :)

Our dog Doc isn’t what most people would think of as a rescue… he came to us from a family that we are friendly with, who couldn’t give him the attention he deserved after the birth of their second child. When he arrived at our house he was very thin, starving for any kind of attention, and in need of some serious grooming. We’ve had him since October, and he is a joy. He’s plumped up (maybe just a hair too much), is clean and healthy, and is a very happy, loved boy. He and our 5-year-old son are inseparable.

Rescue animals are such grateful creatures, and loving to a fault. Enjoy your new addition!

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Lee February 14, 2012 at 5:58 pm

Right away I knew this dog should be named Connie which is short for Constantinople because of course Istanbul was Constantinople but now it’s Istanbul not Constantinople…but really it’s nobody’s business but the Turks.

Lee
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msumissa February 15, 2012 at 6:10 am

Lee, Great minds think alike!

Noelle February 14, 2012 at 6:18 pm

Im too lazy to read all the comments to see if this name has been suggested, but what about Connie? (short for Constantinople!). She is beautiful.

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Noelle February 14, 2012 at 6:19 pm

Apparently I’m too lazy for apostrophes, too. Sheesh…

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Mandi February 14, 2012 at 6:21 pm

You may want to start a taxidermy fund as I see a lot of stuffed pets in your future. Our kids were out playing fetch earlier today, what more can you ask for than a dog that will retrieve the ball while you swing the bat.

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Rachel February 14, 2012 at 7:56 pm

She is beautiful. I can see how you knew right away you would have to make room for her.
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Kelly February 14, 2012 at 10:53 pm

This just melted my heart. Looking forward to lots of stories about this wonderful new addition!!

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Pamela D Hart February 15, 2012 at 10:08 am

I’m a dog lover–I have 3. We just got our new puppy in January.

My favorite breed so far has been the Boxer, however, Goldens are known for their love and loyalty to children. And I can see from your pics, that your new family member already adores your little girl!

I always say when I get more land I’m going to have a dog farm. ;-)

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valmg @ Mom Knows It All February 15, 2012 at 4:55 pm

She’s beautiful!
Good for you and Heather for opening your heart and home to her.

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Frubs February 15, 2012 at 5:19 pm

:3
She’s lovely. Very much d’aww.

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Emily February 15, 2012 at 7:26 pm

Congrats on the new dog! The pictures are great- it’s obvious how much she already loves your daughter. They look like a very happy pair.

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Sheila February 16, 2012 at 12:28 pm

Wow. What an absolute sweetheart she is – just when I have vowed that one dog is enough, a storey like this one (and hearing about the horrible treatment of dogs overseas) makes me question my resolve. Knowing how quickly we became attached to our puppy I can’t imagine simply abandoning one so callously.
It’s wonderful to know that there are such caring, generous people like you and your family, who provide loving homes to the most deserving of creatures :)

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Bobbie {OneScrappyMom} February 16, 2012 at 12:30 pm

She looks happy as can be!! Congrats!

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awesomesauciness February 16, 2012 at 1:01 pm

Tell the truth, now, you had to bribe Kamryn with the chocolate to get her to sit still for that picture, didn’t you?

Lady Sufi* looks absolutely thrilled to be in the picture though.

*and yes, I realize you’ve given her some other name by now, but I was rather pre-occupied with a new grandbaby when this post was put up.
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Lesley February 20, 2012 at 6:32 pm

You’re making me cry!!! You guys are so wonderful! She is so wonderful! Your new puppy that is. Poor kitties though. :-D I totally understand why you chose to save her and not adopt a puppy from America at that moment. My boy cat Jackson I bought from a pet store. But 4 years into his life he started attacking his tail *biting it down to the bone*. I had to have it removed and he’s on pills to keep him calm. If he had gone to a “normal” home with kids is my guess is he would have been put to sleep. But other then the meds he is a perfectly AMAZING cat. And I knew he had come into my life for a reason when he did.
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Sheila February 23, 2012 at 10:37 am

I sat at my desk and cried when I read this. I am an animal lover. I wish I had a farm so I could keep them all. I lost my lab 3 years ago and I thought I was going to die. She followed my daughter home one day and at my house she stayed. If she had been a human male, she would have been my soulmate. The unconditional love these dogs give you IS priceless and they deserve better than they usually get unless they hit the lottery and get goods homes. I wish I could give them all good homes. My heart breaks for them but Mahlika is beautiful and happy and thank you so much for sharing the photos. I really enjoyed them. BTW I just started reading your blog yesterday and am trying to catch up on all the prior posts. Love it!!!!

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